You Deserve to feel like you can take on the world and you are worthy and enough to do it.

Dec 8, 20182 min read

Updated: Jan 16

Dear Lady,

Are you truly comfortable in your own skin when you’re among other women? Do you ever feel the urge to criticize another woman because you’re secretly envious of her progress, her appearance, or even her new partner? Can you genuinely celebrate a woman’s success—whether it’s acing a degree, landing the promotion you also applied for, getting married, or starting a profitable business? Or does envy sometimes creep in, disguised as outward support but later manifesting as pointing out the negatives of her decisions to others?

Here’s the truth: the moment we truly understand our purpose, our personal journey, and our unique timing, envy loses its grip. Your girlfriend’s progress is her time, her chapter. It doesn’t make you any less valuable. Even if she’s made mistakes in the past, it doesn’t mean you’re better than her. Her story is hers, just as yours is uniquely yours.

Wayne Dyer said it best: “Self-worth comes from thinking that you are worthy.” It’s not about what others think or say—it’s about what you believe about yourself. Embrace and love yourself, flaws and all, and you’ll no longer feel the need to compare. Life’s challenges shouldn’t make you forget that you are worthy of love, affection, peace, support, and living your life to its fullest. You, as you are, have everything it takes to make your dreams a reality.

Picture this: if you’re driving on the highway but keep 'focusing' (not just cautiously checking) on the cars to your left and right, how will you ever reach your destination? Your time, your journey, and your purpose are directly ahead of you—not to the sides. Stay focused on your path. Every person is running their race, in their lane, at their pace. Be true to yourself, embrace your journey, and confidently be you.

I look forward to sharing this beautiful journey with you, as we continue to uplift one another, build strength as women, and create an unshakable network of sisterhood.

With Love

Lady Fortunate